The community engagement platform that turns lurkers into active members
Stop watching your community grow in numbers but shrink in participation. Aphinity's community engagement software creates AI-powered 1:1 introductions across Slack, Discord, and email—so every member builds real relationships from day one.
Why most communities have thousands of members but barely any engagement
Most online communities share the same painful reality: fewer than 10% of members actively participate. The rest are ghosts—people who joined with enthusiasm, scrolled for a few days, and silently drifted away. It's not that they don't care about the community's mission. It's that nobody made them feel like they belonged. Group channels are overwhelming for newcomers, and without a personal connection, there's no anchor keeping them engaged.
New member churn is the silent killer of community growth. Research shows that members who don't form at least one meaningful connection within their first two weeks are 5x more likely to leave. Yet most communities rely on generic welcome messages and hope that new members will somehow find their people in a sea of channels and threads. The result? Up to 70% of new members churn within the first 30 days—taking your acquisition effort and budget with them.
Manual introductions don't scale. Community managers who personally welcome every new member and try to connect people one by one hit a wall at around 50 members. Beyond that, it's physically impossible to keep track of who knows whom, what everyone's interested in, and which connections would actually be valuable. You need a community activation tool that makes meaningful introductions automatic, personal, and scalable.
How Aphinity activates community members through automated 1:1 introductions
Aphinity is member engagement software that transforms passive communities into thriving networks. Our AI creates personalized 1:1 introductions between members who share interests, goals, or expertise—delivered directly in Slack, Discord, or email. No more hoping people will connect on their own.
AI matches members based on shared interests, expertise, goals, and what they want to give or get from the community
Automated welcome introductions pair new members with established ones within hours of joining
Recurring matching cadences keep long-term members engaged with fresh connections every cycle
Personalized conversation prompts and icebreakers make every introduction feel natural and valuable
Analytics dashboard tracks engagement health, participation trends, and member satisfaction in real time
Engagement programs communities run with Aphinity
New member welcome introductions
Automatically pair newcomers with established members who share their interests
Interest-based networking
Match members who share hobbies, professional goals, or industry focus areas
Cohort introduction programs
Connect members who joined in the same period to build peer relationships
Expert-to-learner matching
Pair experienced members with those seeking guidance in specific areas
Cross-group connections
Bridge sub-communities by introducing members across different channels or groups
Ambassador programs
Activate your most engaged members as welcome ambassadors for new arrivals
Everything you need in a community engagement platform
Built for community managers, founders, and organizers who want active, connected members—not just growing headcounts.
Welcome programs
Automatically greet new members with a personal 1:1 introduction to someone who shares their interests. First impressions matter—make sure every newcomer feels seen and connected within hours of joining.
Interest-based matching
Our AI pairs members based on shared professional interests, hobbies, goals, and expertise areas. No more random intros—every connection has genuine common ground that sparks real conversation.
Cohort introductions
Group members by join date, membership tier, or topic interest, then create structured introductions within and across cohorts. Perfect for accelerators, bootcamps, and professional associations.
Engagement cadence
Set weekly, biweekly, or monthly matching cycles that keep your community buzzing with fresh connections. Aphinity handles introductions, prompts, and follow-ups—completely hands-off for your team.
Multi-platform support
Works natively inside Slack, Discord, and email. Meet your members where they already are—no new apps to download, no separate logins, no friction between joining and connecting.
Community analytics
Track active participation rates, new member retention, match satisfaction, and engagement trends over time. Export reports to demonstrate ROI to sponsors, partners, or your leadership team.
Measurable results from a community retention platform
These aren't aspirational targets. Here's what community managers actually experience when they replace passive channels with structured member introductions.
Communities using Aphinity see a 40% lift in active participation rates within the first two months of running introduction programs
Members who receive a personal introduction in their first week are 3x more likely to remain active after 90 days
Members consistently rate their Aphinity introductions as valuable and relevant—far above random pairing or no introductions at all
Community managers spend 60% less time on manual introductions and member outreach, freeing them to focus on strategy and content
Three proven ways to drive community engagement
Every community is different. Here are the most popular engagement programs our customers run—each one fully customizable to fit your community's culture and goals.
Slack & Discord community activation
Turn your Slack workspace or Discord server from a content broadcast channel into a vibrant network of connected members. Aphinity creates 1:1 introductions directly inside the platform your members already use—no external links, no extra steps. New members get welcomed personally, active members discover fresh connections, and lurkers get a reason to participate.
- AI pairs members who share interests, goals, or expertise for high-quality introductions
- Welcome programs automatically introduce newcomers to established members within hours
- Conversation starters and icebreakers included with every introduction message
- Works in public channels or private DMs depending on your community preferences
Professional network engagement
Professional communities and industry associations thrive when members build real relationships—not just consume content. Aphinity matches professionals based on career stage, industry focus, and what they can offer or learn from each other. The result is a network where members actively help one another, refer business, and keep coming back because the connections are genuinely valuable.
- Match members by industry, role, experience level, and professional development goals
- Run recurring networking rounds that keep the community fresh and active
- Enable mentorship-style pairings between experienced and emerging professionals
- Track network density and relationship formation across your entire membership
Cohort-based introduction programs
For communities with regular intake—bootcamps, accelerators, professional courses, or seasonal membership drives—cohort programs create structured introductions that bond new members together and connect them to the broader community. Members in the same cohort build tight peer relationships while also discovering connections to long-standing community members.
- Automatically group members by join date, tier, or program enrollment
- Create intra-cohort and cross-cohort introduction rounds on independent schedules
- Pair new cohort members with community mentors or ambassadors
- Track cohort-specific engagement metrics alongside overall community health
How to launch a community engagement program in 5 steps
Most communities launch their first introduction program in under 10 minutes. No developers needed, no complex setup.
Connect your community platform
Integrate Aphinity with your Slack workspace, Discord server, or configure email-based introductions. One-click setup takes about 2 minutes.
Design your engagement program
Choose the type—welcome introductions, interest-based matching, cohort programs, or ambassador rounds—and define matching criteria like interests, expertise, and goals.
Onboard your members
Members answer a few quick profile questions about their interests, expertise, and what they hope to get from the community. Takes about 2 minutes per person.
AI creates meaningful introductions
Aphinity's algorithm analyzes member profiles and creates intentional pairings on your chosen schedule. Each introduction includes personalized conversation prompts.
Track engagement and iterate
Monitor participation rates, match satisfaction, and engagement trends through your analytics dashboard. Adjust matching criteria and cadence based on real member feedback.
Aphinity vs. manual welcome messages vs. random pairing tools
Not all engagement approaches deliver equal results. See why community managers choose AI-powered member introduction software over manual efforts or basic bots.
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Learn moreFrequently asked questions about community engagement software
How do I increase community engagement and reduce member churn?
The most effective way to increase community engagement is to create consistent, meaningful 1:1 connections between members—especially new ones. Aphinity automates this through AI-powered introductions delivered directly in Slack, Discord, or email. Instead of relying on group channels where most members lurk, you create personal touchpoints that make people feel welcomed and valued. Communities using Aphinity see active participation rates climb by 40% and new member retention improve by 3x within the first 90 days.
What is the best community engagement software for Slack and Discord?
The best community engagement software works inside the platforms your members already use—not in a separate app they'll forget about. Aphinity runs natively inside Slack and Discord (plus email for members who prefer it), so there's zero friction. Our AI matches members based on shared interests, goals, and expertise rather than random pairing, which leads to conversations people actually want to have. Setup takes under 10 minutes and pricing starts at $15/month.
How does AI-powered member matching work for communities?
Aphinity's matching algorithm analyzes member profiles across multiple dimensions: professional interests, personal hobbies, career goals, expertise areas, location, and what they hope to get from the community. The algorithm creates pairings that maximize common ground while also introducing complementary perspectives. It avoids repeat matches and adapts over time based on feedback. The result is introductions that feel intentional, not random—leading to 85% satisfaction rates and conversations that extend well beyond the initial icebreaker.
What are the best community member retention strategies?
The number one retention strategy is making members feel personally connected within their first week. Communities that rely solely on group channels and content lose 70% of new members within 30 days. The fix is structured 1:1 introductions—welcoming new members with a personal connection to someone who shares their interests. Aphinity automates this with welcome programs that pair newcomers with established members immediately. Beyond onboarding, recurring introduction cadences keep engagement high for long-term members who might otherwise drift into lurker status.
Can Aphinity manage engagement for communities with thousands of members?
Yes. Aphinity is built to scale from 50-member communities to networks with tens of thousands of participants. You can run multiple programs simultaneously—welcome introductions for new members, interest-based matching for active members, and cohort programs for specific groups—each with its own criteria and cadence. Our AI ensures match quality stays high regardless of community size, and analytics dashboards give you visibility into engagement health across the entire membership base.
How do I run a cohort-based introduction program in my community?
Cohort programs group members who joined around the same time or share a common characteristic, then create 1:1 introductions within or across cohorts. In Aphinity, you set up a program with cohort criteria (join date, interest group, membership tier), define the matching cadence, and let the AI handle the rest. Members receive personalized introductions with conversation prompts directly in Slack, Discord, or email. Cohort programs are especially effective for bootcamps, accelerators, professional associations, and any community with regular intake cycles.
What community engagement metrics should I track?
The most important community engagement metrics are: active participation rate (members who engage beyond just joining), new member retention (how many stay active past 30/60/90 days), connection density (how many unique relationships exist across the community), match satisfaction scores (how members rate their introductions), and recurring engagement rate (members who participate in multiple matching cycles). Aphinity tracks all of these automatically through its analytics dashboard, giving community managers real-time visibility into program health and member sentiment.
How much does a community engagement platform cost?
Aphinity pricing starts at $15/month for small communities and scales based on member count and the number of programs you run. Unlike per-seat enterprise tools that become prohibitively expensive as your community grows, we offer flat-rate plans designed for community economics. Most community managers see ROI within the first month through reduced churn and increased member activity. Contact us for a custom quote based on your community size and engagement goals.
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